
I can’t believe it’s already over, this trip went by so fast!
Going into this trip I had no idea what to expect. I was very intimidated by how different I thought everything would be. I’m not really sure what I expected exactly I did expect the language barrier to be much worse than it really was. Being in a place where nothing is in English and you can’t communicate with your native language is a huge challenge but luckily people in Japan were so much easier to communicate with than i expected. The other thing I was super worried about was the cultural customs like dressing nice and being quiet in public. I was very worried I was going to do something offensive but everyone we interacted with was so understanding and kind.

I think the biggest difference between America and Japan was the attitude of the people. Everyone in public was generally more polite to the point it wasn’t very noticeable because that’s how it was everywhere. Even on trains besides the rules against talking in the phone people were more quiet and very respectful of space. The biggest similarity between America and Japan was honestly that you can’t make assumptions about people. Right away in the airport I saw people I thought were American speaking Japanese and people I thought were Japanese speaking English so very quickly I realized that- like most big cities- Tokyo is incredibly diverse. Other than that I noticed a lot of the same etiquette of big cities in America specifically DC. We have a lot of the same rules about how you should act while getting where you need to go- like being on the left side of the escalator if you’re not walking.

Honestly some of the biggest challenges I faced on this trip were just keeping up with what I needed to do. The first few days of our trip were so packed full and it was amazing but so exhausting. I’m someone who really needs time away from people to recover but obviously I wasn’t really going to get that in Japan so while we were there I really tried to take advantage of our free time to rest and recover- while still being around people. The other challenge was honestly the portion sizes, which are obviously much smaller in Japan. I’m obviously used to American portions but I also need a lot of food because I’m very active so I learned very quickly to never pass up on an opportunity for snacks or drinks just so I could keep my energy up.

There are many differences between us and Japan but one that I still don’t really understand is the money. Most places we went to in Japan primarily used cash and coins which is very cheap to different from America. The other difference I noticed specifically with money is that they use coins to pay for things- their coins actually have value. The 500 yen coin is worth about four dollars, even a one yen coin is about 50 cents and with how much cheaper everything is generally there I ended up using coins so much more which was really cool.
I’m sure there is some deep socioeconomic reason for us not using cash primarily and our coins being so low value but I’m fine with it being a mystery for now

Two things I would say should definitely stay in the itinerary for any future trips in other words my two favorite things were the moss garden and karaoke.
The moss garden was incredible, after rushing around so much I really appreciated anytime we had just to sit in a garden and take everything in and the moss was that but compounded intangibly. The garden itself was a masterpiece, going into the garden and filling out the sutra just as preparation to go was really nice to slow down and appreciate where I was at. Going through the garden was indescribable, I felt completely at peace and relaxed in the environment
Karaoke was kind of the opposite. Not only was it just a really fun way to end the trip but it was really nice to be with everyone for the last night of the trip. I would actually have liked to be there longer but you live and you learn. I think even if not everyone sang everyone had a really good time.
The only thing that stands out of something we can leave out would be Skytree. We discussed this on the trip but it wasn’t really worth it especially at the end of the day. Yes the view was really cool but it was so crowded and it took so long to get it that I would say that you could easily leave it out.
I personally am not a fan of markets and we did go to a lot of them but I know that most people are so I think that depends on who is going on the trip and I was definitely fine just tagging along. The other thing you could leave out was the hot spring eggs. maybe I’ll live 7 years longer so it’s worth it but it was just an egg and our day was already very packed. I will say the ride up the mountain and the view of Fuji was 100% worth it so…not sure what to do with that.

I don’t want to end this blog on a negative note so I’ll say now that this was genuinely the trip of a lifetime. I’m so incredibly grateful of this opportunity and couldn’t have asked for better people to go with. Thank you so much to everyone who made it possible to get there- I know that I’m remember this forever, and obviously this trip wouldn’t have been possible if someone hadn’t taken a huge chance on taking high schoolers to the other side of the world and planned a whole trip for us so thank you Paul, trip dad. I really do miss spending the day with everyone and I’m really grateful for everyone making this trip so amazing. ❤️